I have had trouble finding a dermatologist. For a while, living between SC and MO, the fabulous Sam SaMIMI in St. Louis helped me. That transitional time ended and the local crop had to be explored. Now my insurance company dictates some choice, but I found a lady that is great.
We live in a majority minority county and my new dermatologist is a black woman about my age. She comes to Orangeburg only once a week. She is very busy. In her office yesterday, I counted 25 chairs in the waiting room, and all were full. Two patients were standing. Her office manager has an interesting way of organization, and patients are liable to wait for hours. I take at least two books and my smart phone, reframing the problem as a way to get some reading done. Then the wait is OK.
Black people, unfortunately have always had to wait. It is their history. They do not complain. It shouldn’t be this way, but it has been, and is. When you are a client of a black business, you must understand this. Yesterday, and I have experienced this before, a new patient, upon entering the waiting room, door opening from the outside to 25 pairs of eyes looking up, said “GOOD MORNING!” to all. Most everybody said “Good Morning” back. It was such a humane interaction.
Glenn thinks it comes from the black church. Maybe like a “call and answer” thing. I wonder if it comes from strong black mamas and their directives.
Another interesting thing that happened in that waiting room was that two women were having a conversation across the entire room. It was kind of like white noise to me while reading; I could not understand what they were saying. Looking around I thought, would I have asked someone to move so conversation with my friend would be easier? Think so. But that did not happen in this case.
At the end of my stint (as it turned out to be) in the waiting room, a very tall and elegant black man came in. “GOOD MORNING!” he bellowed and just as loud, all 25 of us responded. I expected him next to say “You may rise and sing Number 112 from our hymnal”. Loved it: we need to speak to each other much more.
Have you been to Waffle House? They do this too when you enter the restaurant.